As I’m sure everyone ha
s heard, Eat, Pray, Love hits theaters this Friday. In case there is anyone unfamiliar with this cultural phenomenon, Eat, Pray, Love follows the protagonist, played by the always gorgeous Julia Roberts, as she travels around Italy, India, and Bali. She starts a “no carb left behind” project, she consumes copious amounts of delicious pasta, she learns to pray and discover herself in India, and she finally finds love in Bali. But here’s the thing: Julia Roberts isn’t playing some random character – she’s playing a real woman.
The woman in question is author Elizabeth Gilbert, who penned the 2006 memoir/travel narrative/food porn extravaganza that quickly became a best seller. The book has inspired numerous readers to search within themselves for a deeper strength, and to reexamine their lives, looking closely at what makes them truly happy.
Gilbert starts the book – and the movie – unhappy. She has just gone through a messy affair and a subsequent divorce. She’s educated and wealthy, but she is just not satisfied. Something, an elusive something, is missing from her life. This realization prompts her to drop everything and begin traveling. She is lucky enough to have the funds to undertake a project many of us can only dream of, but her story is still relatable. Gilbert is lacking something, and through risking everything, she finds what she needed the most: herself.
In honor of the movie’s release, I’d like to suggest we all take a moment and think about what it is that makes us truly happy. For some people, it’s the thrill of travel, or the calm of mediation. For others, it’s creamy, indulgent pasta or freshly made sausage. For me, it’s fresh basil, old cotton t-shirts, used books, and red wine. What makes you feel blessed?
Our newest feature article takes us somewhere hot, somewhere new, somewhere a little bit dirty and a little bit dangerous: the back roads of Bolivia.
Back in the glory days, Joan Didion wrote, “We tell ourselves stories in order to live.” I disagree, unless “we” are identified as that ultimately solipsistic portion of the population that cannot feel engaged in life without constructing narratives. “We” need stories in order to process experience, to cope, to understand, to consolidate stray stimuli into graspable themes and get on with our lives. You’re one of “us” if your psychologist tells you to get out of your head. I’m happy to be placed in almost any grouping that places me alongside ole Joan, but I don’t delude myself: “we” are not everyone.
The relationship between book and the physical world is one of equal exchange and opportunity. Often we take to the written world to better understand things in the physical world, but just as often we take to the outside world to better understand what we have read. Though some books are enjoyed purely for entertainment, many others instruct us, broaden our horizons, and open our minds (much like travel). To put it more simply: We learn to read, we read to learn.